Observations occur and help ensues. Observations when and where needed, and help given when asked for and in the appropriate forum.
Absolutely and does happen on occasion.
Poor choice of wording. You seem to be only viewing this from a negative and attacked point of view. The error can simply be pointed out with some discussion in the appropriate forum or just pointed out leaving the OP with the decision of whether or not to ask for help. Being trundled would be the personal choice of the OP. Perhaps the OP might be willing to help themselves and use the experience as a positive experience in which to improve.
Any observation or suggestion that could possibly lead to improvement can always be pointed out. Bare in mind, some observations outside technical errors may be by personal preference or choice. You should make suggestions but they may not always be what the OP had in mind for their work.
Again, very negative thinking.
I absolutely never criticized anything!! I was never being critical about anything! I was simply pointing out technical errors. I fear you don't understand what criticism is.
Criticism, noun :the expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes. :the construction of a judgement about the positive and negative qualities of someone or something. :may also refer to an expression of disapproval.
I never disproved of you or your work! All I simply did was point out an error(s). I do completely understand that you feel attacked somehow. I have assured you that this was not the case! I don't know what else I can do to make you understand that I'm not being critical!
If you see other works that you consider poor and would like to comment on, then please do so!
Lost in the discussion? Not sure if I understand. Does this mean that because of the subsequent circumstances and discussion that you are going to continue working too fast and making technical mistakes or are you considering slowing down and double checking your work? Or does this mean that I'm now and forever to be considered a demon from hell and that nothing I say or do will have any bearing on you at all?
There's that criticism word again and with a "so be it". Contradicts the "came here to learn" part. Part of learning is having your mistakes pointed out. It's how all of us have progressed through life. I can not think of a single aspect of my own personal life where I have not benefited from others pointing out my shortcomings and mistakes!!!
There's a lot to be learned from observation...............but observation without questions is a fools errand. I have always asked questions when curious about what someone did. Trying to figure something out on your own can be frustrating and not end well.
There's that word again! And your RIGHT! When someone points out that you may have made some technical errors, then you do need to go beyond the observation and ask questions or seek out help and instruction!
Having stated all of this, I will also add so there is no confusion.....................I will always make observations, but I will not offer any unsolicited help. I've learned not to do that over the years!
You have to ask questions or for explanations. I have always been one to offer (BORINGLY) detailed explanations of how to do something in particular or something that I did.